On relationships and communication I could talk over and over again. I will probably never understand men, but one thing I learned for sure.
Boys only want love if it’s torture.. But real men want you to text them back. Honestly. The way you can tell the boys from the men is how they react when you don’t play games with them.
A boy will become bored. A man will want to get to know you even more.
Everyone wants a challenge, but you shouldn’t have to completely manipulate your communication style in order to seem like one. Your conversation, your outlook, your wit, your accomplishments, your charisma, those things should challenge him.
And MAN knows that if you’re showing him all of these qualities, you could just as easily show them to someone else if he play games. You know what they say, play games with a girl, she’ll chase you. Play games with a woman, she’ll replace you.
Being single for the last couple of months, and getting out of a long time relationship has allowed me to start dating. And at the same time watching my girlfriends and the people in my life go through their own relationships jumps. I realized that at the end all that matters is that the other person is really there for you. There has to be trust and want.
As well I would say that in order to create a solid relationship you’re not supposed to force it and having a need for it. It all starts with just a want. Observing my friends and relatives I realized that those who had found solid relationship had usually found them with people who didn’t initially needed them, it started out as just a want. These people had already gotten their lives to a place where they didn’t feel like there were any missing pieces, then they met someone and all of a sudden made room in their already great lives for somebody great to love.
Be happy with your life but really just want the other person to be in it. Not having the need, just want. You never know when it happens, normally when you least expect it.
Just believe and be patient, xx MM